People are just as wonderful as sunsets if you let them be. When I look at a sunset, I don't find myself saying, 'Soften the orange a bit on the right hand corner.' I don't try to control a sunset. I watch with awe as it unfolds.
When you follow your heart or your gut, when you really follow the things that feel right to you and the things that you know are right, that's really the only way to create the best possible outcome.