A wise man said: before you speak， let your words pass through three gates. At the first gate， ask yourself， "Is it true？" At the second gate， ask "Is it necessary？" At the third gate， ask， "Is it kind？"
The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
